| I currently put the relationship first, above all other interests. | | | | | |
| My partner currently puts the relationship first, above all other interests. | | | | | |
| I am fully transparent with my partner. | | | | | |
| My partner is fully transparent with me. | | | | | |
| I treat my partner in a manner that is fair, just, and sensitive. | | | | | |
| My partner treats me in a manner that is fair, just, and sensitive. | | | | | |
| I share equal power and authority with my partner. | | | | | |
| My partner shares equal power and authority with me. | | | | | |
| I repair misunderstandings and injuries with my partner quickly and effectively (within 30 minutes). | | | | | |
| My partner repairs misunderstandings and injuries with me quickly and effectively (within 30 minutes). | | | | | |
| I am an expert on my partner. I am his/her “whisperer.” | | | | | |
| My partner is an expert on me. S/he is my “whisperer.” | | | | | |
| I am good at brokering win-win solutions with my partner. | | | | | |
| My partner is good at brokering win-win solutions with me. | | | | | |
| I pay close attention to my partner’s facial, vocal, and body cues in a manner that is helpful to him/her. | | | | | |
| My partner pays close attention to my facial, vocal, and body cues in a manner that is helpful to me. | | | | | |
| I protect my partner in public and private at all times. I have his/ her back. | | | | | |
| My partner protects me in public and private at all times. S/he has my back. | | | | | |
